The Ex

Social Media: Friend or Foe When Going through Divorce or Separation?…

  Alcohol use can come with severe costs. It can lead to legal issues, financial stress, unemployment, and cause serious health issues. It can also destroy families and wreak havoc on relationships. Each April, the National Council for…

  I have written a lot about my experience with infidelity which resulted in my divorce. I am at a place after so many years where I am no longer affected by it emotionally. That took a while! I am now actually at a place where I am…

What To Expect From a Narcissist At The End Of a Relationship…

People lie in divorce court for several reasons and it leaves those of us who wouldn’t, wondering why or, what the gain is.   Divorce was my first experience with any kind of legal issue that required testifying “under oath.” I took the…

  Infidelity can have some big impacts on marriage other than the obvious and sometimes more damaging than the loss of trust. The long-lasting psychological effects for either partner along with the legal ramifications that can occur…

What I Learned About Playing The Victim From My Passive Aggressive Ex…

  My Facebook feed is filled with divorced or almost divorced women turning to each other for support and there is one thing you won’t find on there: Men. Single dads and divorced dads are not gathering in tribes on social media boards…

  Many people who come to me for counseling ask me “Why do I attract partners who are toxic?” Or, “How can I steer clear of partners who are all wrong for me?” Marissa, a client who sought support with making healthier choices in…

  Based on the content analysis of interviews, the following conclusions have been developed, each of which is explored in my book Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome: Breaking the Ties that Bind (W.W. Norton & Company).…