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Coping with Divorce
Things Divorced People Want To Say
Before I got divorced, I had no idea what I would experience, and what life after divorce would look like. So, that being said, divorced people should remember that all of our married friends have no clue about what it’s like going…
Divorce Advice for Fear, One of the Hardest
There are so many feelings that come with being newly separated and going through a divorce: shock, guilt, devastation, sadness, anxiety, anger, jealousy, bitterness and…one of the worst—FEAR.
Fear is a very powerful emotion that can…
20 things I wish I Told My Newly Separated Self
As I look back on myself as a newly separated 41 year-old–feeling scared and sad and angry and hopeless and lonely, I realize now how utterly lost I was. Those first several months going through a divorce with two young children were…
Keep Hating Your Spouse. It’s Good For You
Are you one of those divorced people who is really hating your spouse? I mean deep hatred? If so, my advice is: keep hating your spouse. It’s good for you. Wait, what?!
I mean that in a very very sarcastic way. Let me explain.…
What’s Up With the Negative Self-Talk?
Ever talk to yourself? Of course you do. “Why am I being so stupid?” “Why did I say that to her?” “I hope I didn’t say anything dumb.” “This dress used to be fit so much better.” “I’m old.” “I screwed up again.” Sound familiar? I bet…
How to be independent in life after divorce- Divorced Girl Smiling
For many people, one of the scariest things about getting divorced is having to be much more independent. For example, I have a friend who moved right from her parent’s house into the home she shared with her husband for 30 years…
Should This Woman Regret Getting Divorced?
Do people get divorced and never look back? Some do. But I think most divorced men and women spend weeks, months, years, and even decades in some cases, rehashing things that happened in their marriage, looking back and second…
Best Help During a Divorce
Are you looking for help during a divorce?
Divorce is one of the most challenging life events an individual can experience. If there are children involved, the effects reach far past just the married couple. This time can be damaging to…
How to Tie Up Loose Ends After Your Divorce
Divorce can be a taxing process with regard to your energy, resources and emotions. While you have plenty of things to attend to during and after a divorce, it’s important to take time for yourself to regroup.By Paisley Hansen Updated:…
Ways That You Can Improve Self-Esteem After Divorce
Are you looking for ways to improve your self-esteem after divorce?
Divorce is hard to deal with and can take a toll on your health in many ways. Your emotional and mental health are not exceptions. This can be difficult to manage and…